Dating Advice To All Women

Are You Single?

According to our research, there are 105 million singles in America. Many of them are looking for attractive men, and men looking for attractive women, just to have a good time, have sex, and then continue with the excitement somewhere else, jumping from one relationship to the other. I know many women today doing this and thinking they will start a family later… but there is a danger thinking this way.

We are not going to live forever, and as women we don’t have much time to have children. If you continue playing the “game” you may find one day, the years have passed you bye, you are older, you are lonely and with no family of your own. Don’t allow this to happen to you.

You need to make arrangements and take the proper steps now, to start your new family and enjoy life to the fullest. You need to take control, instead of allowing circumstances or men to control you.

It is very important for a woman to know how to approach the dating scene and learn how to do it correctly.

Dating has different meanings in different countries. For example in most South American Countries, dating is a time to meet the possible husband you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You get to know each other by doing things together, having meals with the family, going to the movies, going dancing, and been together as much as they can to get to know each other better. Kissing and hugging is normal, but no more. This is the time to learn to be friends first, then, if they see they are compatible and can build a life together, they get married and consummate their love on their wedding day.

In other countries, the parents arrange for the mates and the marriages. When I was working for Corporate America a few years ago, I had a male friend from India. The family arrange for a wife for him. He went back to India on his vacation time to get married. Unfortunately he didn’t like the bride, but the parents very quickly arrange for another one and got him married. When he came back, he introduced us to his new wife. Fortunately the bride was mentally prepared for many changes in her life, and for what I understand they are living a happy life here in the States.

Here in America, there is a different feeling, different rules, and more complicated arrangements. The Internet has changed it all, some say…

The Rules Have Changed

Yes, the Internet has changed it ALL. Match.com the leading on line dating network has discovered the new trend, and it is time to update the new thinking…they say… but, can we update our thinking to this new trend, without compromising on the essence of its purpose?

I agree and understand that the way women find an approach singles today is very different than a few years ago, but let’s not lose the essence and the purpose of dating. Even thou we have easier ways to approach men, and meet men, that doesn’t mean the results have changed. We are still looking for a good man, a good husband, and we need to make an effort to find him the right way for us.

Yes, you should have a plan. If you stop and think about it, this is the most important step and decision you are going to make in your entire life. This is going to bring you happiness or it is going to destroy the chance to be you. You cannot arrange your whole life in a rush and make such an important decision without thinking what you are doing and where you are going.

Check for that plan here!

How many times have you heard a friend, or yourself say…I don’t have a date for tonight, what am I going to do? You feel desperate and sad. Your positive attitude is gone, your heart starts beating rapidly, and your sense of stability disappears.

You look at your phone every minute, wishing for his call. Hoping he invites you out and have a good time.

Or, some women feel they are not beautiful enough for the man of their dreams, so they settle for the first man that gives them a smile and some attention. If you are one of these women...think about this realities:

1- First of all, all women are born beautiful!

2- You can maintain your beauty by perfecting yourself as a woman.

3- There is no other person like you on this earth.

4- You are unique, and there is a perfect fit for you somewhere.

So, don’t sheet yourself… and create the road for your successful life!

Start that path by polishing and perfecting yourself as a woman of value, intelligence, and have something special to give to your future husband.

Create a crown of glory around yourself, by the way you speak, behave and present yourself.

Adorn yourself with confidence, control, and a positive attitude.

Become a woman of quality and value, a “woman of power…” only then… you will attract a man of value. The Law of Attraction will work for you, and you will be in control of your destiny!

It is very easy to go to a singles bar, or the gym, or the internet to find a date and play the game, but that is all you are going to get, others playing with you and your feelings. I am not saying this is wrong, but there is something better to do than looking in places like this.

Where do I go then?

Well, you have to go to places you are interested in. If you like to play Golf, then, visit the golf course in your area. Why? Because you might find a serious minded person that likes something you like; playing golf!

If you are religious, then visit your church. If you like car races, then be there as much as you can.

You need to visit places you love, so you can continue with the routine together. Take the lead now in your future life. There is harmony in this relationship and that is a good start.

Get you pencil and paper out and make a list of the places you are going to target. Remember, this have to be places you love.

Once you have your list, visit them often, and have a positive attitude. You are looking for your “prince charming” and you are not going to settle for less.

(Hopefully you have your list and know exactly what you are looking for. If you don’t have a list, go HERE and learn how to put your list together.)

According to a poll I did a few months ago, out of 100 married women when asked the question….Did you know he was the one at some point in your relationship? Surprisingly, 90% responded YES!

How can I know if I my boyfriend is the one?

Sorry to emphasize, but make sure you have done your homework and have the list ready MY HUSBAND LIST . The reason I emphasize the list, is because we have to make sure if you are going through the right path or not.

If you are... then continue with this list.

1- You know it in your heart.

2- When you feel you cannot live without that person.

3- When you feel he completes you.

4- When there are no doubts what so ever in your mind.

5- When he fulfills all or more than 50% of your list.

6- When there is complete harmony between you two.

Please don’t get mistaken here for the blindness of physical attraction. As we reviewed in the second chapter this is important, but it is not everything. Review your list to make sure he has the qualities you are looking for in a man. If he qualifies for more than half, then you have something there. The more he fulfills your list, the better for you.

This is your life and your future. Concentrate, focus, and don't through it away.

Good and long happy life to you!

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